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STORY TIME​ COMPARISONS

There are days where I still catch myself falling into the trap of comparing myself to other Women. Especially when it comes to looks. When I was about 16 these Women/Girls where mostly White or of a lighter skin color. At that age, I wore my beautiful curly hair straight ALL THE TIME (which led…

BLACK ARTS RETREAT – SOUL SISTERS

The day my Father told me “we are moving  back to Africa” was one of the happiest most exciting days I can remember. I could not wait to make new friends who had the same color as me. As a child, of course, I did not realize how much I needed a sister who looked…

CUTTING MY HAIR #1

  Sometimes I do things drastically without thinking about them or without a reason and after a while I realise that me doing that thing so drastically had a good reason. Or at least I come up with a good excuse. I do not understand why people always ask someone why they cut of their hair,…